I had a hard time finding information on bringing the kids on a Queen Mary 2 (QM2) Crossing. The ship is incredibly child friendly. It is my understanding that summer voyages have more children on board then the rougher winter crossings. We were one of several families using the QM2 to move our family overseas.
Here are the answers to the questions I wish I had before we got onboard. Please feel free to contact me or comment if you have other questions. I am happy to help.

What is the weather like?
We were blessed with a beautiful crossing. Our first two days were overcast with a few scattered storms. The seas were a bit rough, but nothing like the tales of winter crossings. Day three we saw nothing but sunshine until we reached Southampton. We were out on the deck as much as possible enjoying the fresh air and sunshine. Sunbathing was a very popular activity with many of our fellow passengers.

What’s the deal with the kids program?
The kids program on the QM2 is called the Kids Club. It is located on Deck 6 aft and port. We booked through a travel agent who was able to locate our room near the club (but not too close.) This was great because we did a lot of walking back and forth between our room and the Kids Club.
The Kids Club staff will warn you that they are limited in the number of children they can take based on child to staff ratios (which for the 2-5 age group is 4:1). On our cruise the program was limited to 32 kids and there were 35 age-eligible kids on the ship. We never had an issue getting H into the program since some families did not utilize the Kids Club.
The kids activity sheet is in your room when you arrive. More copies are available at the Kids Zone. The Kids Zone is open 9-12, 2-5 and 6-12 most days. You have to arrive 15 minutes before closing time to pick your kids up since signing everyone out takes some time.
We were very happy with the Kids Zone for our 3 year old. He was one of the youngest in the program, but they did a great job of keeping him engaged and happy. The first morning we dropped him off we stopped back about an hour into the program and found him crying on the lap of one of the staff members. We went in and played with him a bit and within a few minutes were able to leave him again. We did not have a single issue after that.
There were a wide variety of activities – crafts, games, parties, face painting and more. There was always something fun going on! Parents are welcome to come participate in any of the activities but must wear a visitor lanyard and are limited to a one-hour visit at a time. This policy ensures that helicopter parents do not linger in the Kids Zone.
The staff members store all of your child’s art in a folder in the Kids Zone. If, like our H, your child wants his art to decorate their stateroom, just ask and they will happily give it to you each day.
In general we dropped H off at 9am right when it opened. He stayed and played until we picked him up at 11:45 and took him to eat lunch with us. Most days the 2pm dropoff was only an hour after you’ve picked him up since the ship’s clocks change at 12:00.
We rarely made the 2pm drop-off. We took H to a planetarium show or tea a few times and to some dance and music activities. A few days he even took a nap. Around 4pm there is usually a family activity and we would try to join the group for that.

What to do with Under 2’s?
If your child is under two years old they cannot attend the children’s program without you there. There is a “baby room” that during the day is full of toys. Someone in our group took O there most days. O could happily entertain himself or play with someone for hours.
O loved to walk around the boat. He would walk the hallways, climb the stairs and ride the elevators making friends.
He typically took two naps each day. Jeff and I alternated sitting in the dark room (yea for inside cabins!) with him. We built a little tent out of the lower bed so that whomever was in the room could use a light without disturbing him.
The kids both loved the live musical acts. We would find seats with lots of room for the kids to move around and they would watch the musicians and dance around.

The facts about night nursery.
In the evening you can leave kids in the night nursery. The night nursery for kids over two runs like a normal program. The kids can wear their PJ’s (which H loved) and they do crafts, have story time and watch a movie. When you pick the kids up they are all snuggled on big pillows watching the movie.
The babies (6 months thru 23 months) can be left but only if they are going to sleep. You are given a pager and the staff pages you every time your child wakes. They go in and check the room temperature and baby’s breathing every 10 min. We had a lot of luck getting O down for a bit there, but he was often the only child in the night nursery.
Most of the parents we talked to said they could not get the system to work for them. We tried it every night with O it worked each night a bit better then the night before. It totally depends on your kid.
One evening when O woke up in night nursery I just picked him up and brought him up to the lounge with me. He was happy to sit quietly while we finished our drinks. The staff even brought him an ice water with a straw.

What are the meal options with the kids?
You can eat anywhere with your kids. We did!
I always brought some sort of activities with me to meals so the kids were entertained.
The Kids Tea was our least favorite of our eating option. It was made of mostly “Kids Food:” hamburgers, hot dogs, pasta, pizza and french fries. We went once but otherwise found healthier options on the normal buffet or by using room service.
When night nursery in the Kids Club did not work out for us we brought the kids with us to the dining room. The staff was incredibly kind and helpful, bringing kids meals quickly and helping to entertain them.
When at any meal we could order anything off the kids menu, regular menu or just request food. Little O loves bananas and we were able to get one whenever he made the sign for banana.
What to wear?
Clothing was all over the place. The ship has some basic rules about dressing up after 6pm. Athletic gear in the public areas was prohibited, which was generally adhered to – although there were certainly violators! (Yes. I saw you walking through the buffet in your robe??)
I packed mostly capri and summer pants paired with cardigans for the daytime. I fit in nicely. My boys were mostly in polo shirts and button downs with pants. Jeff wore a button down almost every day with nice jeans (not faded, worn or torn) or khaki pants.
What movies do they show?
A variety of movies are shown both in your stateroom and in the theater on the boat. While we were on board none were little kid friendly and some were older kid friendly. (We did find Frozen on in the room on the French channel one morning and rolled with that to entertain the kids while we got dressed.)
The movies showing in the larger theater were all from this year. So we had options like Cinderella and In To The Woods.
Still looking for something? Leave me a comment or check the Tips & Tricks for Traveling with Kids on the QM2 and my Top 10 lists for the QM2.
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What a great way to travel … although being some-one who can get sea-sick on a mill pond I may have to give this one a miss! #Expatlifelinky
Rosie, the QM2 is the smoothest ride I’ve ever been on, although I hear that is not true on a winter crossing. The pointed front and huge stabilizers, that on a clear calm sea day you can actually see, are what sets it apart as an Ocean Liner.
Oh my gosh! I would love to take this trip! I’m going to have to wait until I’m sure Little Bit will not climb the railing and jump overboard, but I’ll put it down for the future. And with such great practical advice in this post, I can probably get the hubby on board. ; )
Brynn it was a great trip! I was so worried about someone falling over, my littlest just started walking, that I had a rule for the first two days that the littles could not go out on the open deck. I soon realized that my little one had to stay on a covered deck, but my three year old was able to walk, hold a hand and stay away from the edge. Most of the space is interior and we booked an interior room for just that reason. My mom’s room had a 5 foot steel balcony wall, so they could be out there without a problem… although I did remove the furniture so they resisted the urge to climb.
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What a wonderful trip!
I can’t imagine taking my boys on a big boat like this I think they’d drive me mad! Sounds like you had a good time though. 🙂
They have childcare every day which the children loved! I much preferred it to taking the kids on an overseas flight. Thanks for stopping by!
oMG i would love to go on a trip like that 🙂 But knowing my daughter she would complain!
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Hi Elizabeth,
Thank you for your post which I found very interesting, I actually did the crossing both ways with my hubby and 2 daughters when they were 2 yo and 3.5 yo, we went in May 2016 and the sea was quite rough but the ship handled it so well and we came back in June 2016 when the whole crossing was unbelievably smooth, both trips were great though and I am looking forward to going back to Europe this way. My question to you is, since you have 3 little ones, what kind of cabin did you book, can you stay with 3 kids in a regular cabin, do you know if Cunard allows 2 small kids + 1 infant in a cot?
Thank you and keep up what you are doing, seems like THE way to live life :)) Kudos
Hi. We only had two kids when we did the crossing the first time. However I do know that you can apply for an exception to the rule to add people to the room. There are also connecting room options – we had a travel agent that worked with Cunard to find the best fit for our group.
Thank You Elizabeth!
Thanks! This is really helpful.
Curious–where do the kids sleep in an interior stateroom? Do the beds come off the wall? Trundle? Ceiling? We have two elementary-aged kids and we’ve got an interior room on deck 6 (near the kids zone) booked. Appreciate any thoughts.
Hi Marie. The interior room is great. There are two beds that pull down from the ceiling and then two single beds under them. You can also put these two single beds together and have them made up as a king. We kept them separate as it gave the most floor space for us. When are you sailing? We will also be on the Queen Mary again soon!
Thanks for all the tips! My question is regarding tbe dress code for the children. On formal nights, do they also have to dress up? My 9 year old son does not own a suit! Are they able to wear smart shorts into the dining room? I anticipate they will eat with us every night in the Britannia. Do they have tables for 4 or will we need to share with others? If so, I am not sure I could relax! Did you find tbe interior cabin big enough for the 4 of you please?
Hi Catherine. The dress code is strictly enforced for everyone except probably the babies, although we still saw most of the little kids dressed up with bow ties and jackets or dresses on formal nights. Shorts are not allowed in the dining room at all for anyone at dinner time. If you don’t want to dress up they send you up to the buffet. You could get away with some kaki pants and a button down shirt for the kids. We are sailing again this summer and I did get the older boys (6 and 4) jackets to wear with kakis for dinner. You may find though he wants to eat at the kids dinner and then go hang out in the older kids club. The ship has been renovated since our sailing but most of the tables were 6-10 tops, we did not see many tables for four so its likely you will be sitting with others… however this may have changed so its worth checking in with someone. We liked the interior cabin and found it had plenty of space. It was on the larger end of cabins we have been in. We didn’t hang out in there much as there is so much room on the QM2 to hang out, we were really just in there to sleep.
How did you book accommodations for the children? Do you pay full price to include a child in the same bed as you?
I worked through a travel agent. We had a deal where the kids sailed at half price. We actually had two rooms because my parents were traveling with us. Although we had two rooms our family of five shared a room. The price depends on age of the child and a number of things. Your best bet is to go through an agent who can help you navigate all the options.
Hey, Elizabeth! This is amazing! I’m seriously considering this as an alternative to a transatlantic flight (solo) with my 2 boys as we move to the UK this summer. What thoughts/advice to you have for clearing customs on arrival and transportation to London from the cruise terminal?
Hi! I’m actually working on another post now about it because we just sailed again instead of flying this time in the other direction. Clearing Customs on the way to the UK is done on the boat so it is EASY PEASY! You will get a time to all appear in the theater and do all your customs and immigration. Your bags do have to be collected and scanned, but by the time we were called off the ship our stuff was waiting for us. We booked a private transfer to London. It was just easier with the boys and was so worth the money. I had a travel agent book it for us – we used one to book the cruise at no cost to us and got all sorts of perks. Happy to pass on the name if you are interested. He also arranged our transportation to London. You can also easily fly out of Southampton airport or take the train depending on where you are heading. If you do either of those you can just grab a taxi at the port to take you to the airport or train station. Do be aware though that sometimes the ship can be late. With the private transfer we were able to stay in touch with them during disembarkation.
Heya – can’t overstate the number of times I’ve returned to your blog. 🙂 Thank you! Would you be willing to share the travel agent you worked with, if they’re still in business? I realise this was a long, long time ago – but I’m having a devil of a time figuring out how to find a travel agent. Thanks so much!
Might be a sill question but in your top photo showing the surround of the ship. Is it filled in between the “ropes” .it doesn’t look very safe for children
It is not filled in. You certainly need to watch any children when they are outside on the decks.
Hi Elizabeth, thanks for this post, help us a lot!!!
I have still a question about kids on pubs and other zones such as party areas, clubs etc. If they wake up during their nursery time… and we have to take them with us, are they allowed to enter in those areas? We are sailing on January for a winter crossing from NY to Southampton with my 21 months baby and a 4 years old boy… and I am not sure the keep the entirely time at the play zone or nursery.